Questionable Love

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Just leaving a question today…

Where has the unconditional love lost? Why is it that you have to fulfill conditions to prove your love and DESERVE love in return? Where is the unadulterated love, the one that asked for nothing? Why do I have to change into a person who I am not, just why?

I take a stand today. Love me for who I am and not for who you can make me into…

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  1. Sifar says:

    Exactly! 😔

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    1. Yamini says:

      It’s sad…. but today’s truth!

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      1. Sifar says:

        I know..it pains a lot! Disappointing! And sometimes we become fools and try to change ourselves… only realising it later on that it was so not worth it!! 😔😔

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      2. Yamini says:

        I agree with you… nobody is worth losing our identity for!!

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      3. Sifar says:

        Yes 🙅

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  2. We receive what we are. So, if we don’t love ourselves unconditionally, then no one else will with the exception of our creator.

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    1. Yamini says:

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts… though I feel that the two scenarios have less in common

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  3. That is the only way to love!

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    1. Yamini says:

      Not many think so…

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  4. Beautiful and true! I love it Yamini!

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    1. Yamini says:

      Thank you dear 😊

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      1. You’re welcome!

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  5. Very true!!! Said everything so well in that short passage. Requires not more to say ! Only to understand!

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    1. Yamini says:

      Thank you so much for understanding…

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  6. hati03nisa says:

    Dear, loved this post thank you

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    1. Yamini says:

      Thank you 😊

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  7. The true wisdom of this escapes most of us, until we realize we are not only no longer ourself, but have also lost whatever it was that was most attractive to those who would change us.
    Namasté
    नमस्ते
    Chazz Vincent

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    1. Yamini says:

      Lovely views 😊

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  8. That is real love. and true courage – to love one as they are
    It’s beautiful

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    1. Yamini says:

      Thank you 😊

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  9. I think that people are becoming progressively more frightened to honestly face themselves, the real — the good, the bad and the ugly — and so they create a sort of avatar of themselves that fits the mold of what they think they wish to be. Since they are incapable of loving themselves as they are, it follows that they cannot take an honest look at others just as they are and appreciate it for what it is. Unconditional universal love starts with unconditional but egoless self love.

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    1. Yamini says:

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts 😊 I appreciate it

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  10. nathaswami says:

    Only the mother’s love is unconditional.

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    1. Yamini says:

      A mother’s love is truly unconditional… well said

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  11. No-one can alter their basic nature, but many a valuable life has been wasted in trying….

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    1. Yamini says:

      I agree with you…

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  12. N says:

    To be honest it’s not just about finding that kind of love but also about groing into a person who is capable of loving someone like that… are we? am I ?
    unconditional love has always bee a big mistory for me.

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    1. Yamini says:

      Indeed it is a mystery and you are right.., if we can’t give it we don’t deserve it

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